Hi fotorat1
Saw you are having problems on ebay.
The situation is very easily resolved. You need to go onto your purchase history, click on more actions on the item listing and select return item. Select reason from drop down menu and write some details, keep it simple and try not to sound angry, and submit. Simple!
Ebay will automaticlly contact the seller to issue refund and accept return. They will send you return postage label and the seller must refund upon reciept of item. If he doesnt for any reason ebay will refund you in full. The issue is between ebay and the seller, let them sort it out for you, and dont worry as it will get sorted regardless of what he says or does.
And, despite what many think or say, you can return any item for a refund regardless of wether the seller accepts returns or not, and if an item is damaged in the post, or seller says it wasnt like that when he sent it, same thing really, then it is still the sellers responsability to accept return and refund, not the buyers. The seller has to resolve the matter with the courier, not you!
Simple, just do as above and forget about it, it will get sorted. Dont get into an argument with the seller and dont worry about what he says he is prepared to do, and dont just return it to him!! do it through ebay.
Mark