Mine's actually going all right, got a date, venue without much hassle. What's concerning me is that I can see what she's doing - casually throwing around details like the hundreds we need to spend on a cake for example - knowing full well that I can't accept that, will do a full audit and end up arranging loads myself to save shed-loads of cash.
It's like an out of body experience, I can see all this happening, but I'm powerless to stop it. They're devious creatures, not to be trusted!