How are you classed a bike collector?, what level of collecting should I be at before I can judged by as 'so called' and I can belittle someone please?
In all honesty, I feel it's down to personality, messaging and texting is so impersonal sometimes and can seem aggressive/rude so a phonecall or meet is nicer to chat things out but I have never come across someone who makes me feel small, belittled or inadequate on this site or FB really, everyone seems quite normalish.
Sorry for your bad experience...... You maybe got the 1 in 100 cnut