I used that adjustable c-clamp to secure press the hinge-eyelets together. Then I put the frame flat on my lawn, which is soft enough to not scratch anything while still alowing the sleeve to "sink in". I cant remember exactly what I used for hammering, but as the sleeve has no markings from the process, I am pretty sure, I used some wooden something to hammer on. As for the tool, I have a very heavy hammer made from oak wood. I do remember it took me several very hard blows to get that bushing out of there.
I don't think desel will help it in any way. But it won't hurt, too. Maybe use some alcohol, too, to help you courage a bit
My memory is shot, i just cant remember all the bits i used to tap out the main pivot :? I laid the frame on a bit of wood so the metal of the swing arm was supported,held that in place with a QR joiners clamp(plastic type) then placed the socket against the edge of the main pivot and started hitting it. You really need to brace the frame so it doesnt jump about.
Doesnt seem to be a set side you knock it out from.
I think i followed someone else's instructions, and there was pics so maybe just search the other forums too.