I remember mbuk once describing sudocream as "arse magic" and that's exactly what it is.
make sure the angle of the seat is right as the numbness of the gentlemans vegetables come into play.
get the right saddle. lots can be recommended but only you will know what feels right. I like rolls and san marco ponza, others swear by brooks but make sure of 2 things 1. its not a cheap saddle, 2, its made with good quality material. charge, brooks, fizik, san marco ect don't have the reputation they do by making crap. but try some out and see what feels good