its all dependant on the person of course as well as how you you feel personally about what going out with a " private dancer " implies
by asking its safe to assume you are worried about what others would think . when out doing the couple thing ( i hate doing the couple thing

) and the conversation comes to the "i do this , i do that" would you be confident to say she dances for money ? or shy away from it
if shes a genuinely nice person ( ive met a few who wernt complete tw@ts ) the problem might be more to do with your own insecurity than what job she does .
she might just be saving to go to uni ( i met one who was retiring at 23

) and just using an asset for a short time to better herself
depends if you can take the wise remarks on the chin and dish back the comments and take it as a giggle or if it would eventually wear you down
they have a lot of control in what they do . nobody can touch ( i saw 4 very large blokes throw a guy across the street who thought he could ) they are always looked after by very scary menacing looking chaps . if they dont want to do something they dont . its basically self employment . id say someone working for a souless company answering to an arse of a boss all day everyday was more of a whore than someone who charges men to look at nakedness for stupid amounts of money
having a girl who makes large amounts of money for looking good is pretty sweet really