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I joined a few years ago so am still pretty new to the forum, it is full of great people, knowledge & information! Having been on forums that are not as active as they once were or up to date as new ones I need to say be thankful for it, I've seen a few shut down & lost whole communities & tonnes of expertise.
As for Botm, it's a thankless but well managed job, so respect is due!
What I will say is that it's rare you get a blow up on here, however all the ones I've seen feature similar instigators & you kind of shrug it off, you always get people like that in life.