Something going on here. I have an Athena headset from the early 90s, but the top lock nut is different to the one in the pics posted earlier. Yours look like it needs a washer under it, mine doesn’t have the same shape on the underside.
This is the headset I have:
https://bikerecyclery.com/nib-nos-campagnolo-athena-headset-1-threaded-1990s-8s-9s-era-bsa/
I’m struggling to keep mine tight (have big headset spanners, tried PTFE) but I’m not sure if the top nut offered here will work. Also I just noticed that the one in the link above has a washer under the lock nut. Mine doesn't, could that be a reason why mine's working it's way undone all the time?
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