What I find very interesting in this thread and others, is it is always the same pat back people that try to deny the words of others, as if they expect everyone else to have the same perspective as they.
Life is what it is, and despite all attempts to make it the best that it can be, shit happens and everything falls apart.
But I am finding the older we get, the more tired we get of the same 'ole, same 'ole attrition and as a natural defence, we retreat into a world where we believe what we want to believe and ignore anything that is in the least bit painful to bear or taxes the mind to worry. In short, we become complacent, the fight goes out of us and we just accept, anything for a quiet life.
But as we become complacent, others work against us and though it might not affect us in our apathy, the young will reap the rewards of our stupour as they find life that little bit more difficult than their fathers before, but they will do the same, a lifetime of vexation gives way to apathy and their sons will feel it more.
Life is what it is, we can make it or break it, it is up to us, but why chide those who still fight and try, just because we have lost the will and hope ourselves.