Small update: I personally blame
@ibbz for his (one of many, and very nice) Bianchi build threads for introducing me to the brand FRM and how light weight a lot of their parts are. Also
@Dr Dremel for introducing me to Tune which also make very light components. The conundrum is a much slower build time and buying yet more parts in exchange for having very light parts some of which step outside the year 1995 to a few items that are a bit newer.
I suppose I will start a more specific WTB thread and link that to the first post. I have been going down a light weight rabbit hole these last few days.