i know that approaching it calm in the first place is the best way, but if things get crappy, i'd just like to know where i stand. they aren't unreasonable but im the only person that does my job in my company at the moment (we have someone starting soon that will be helping me, so if i do leave, they wont be completely buggered). but i can just imagine that they'd push to get me staying for my whole 3 month notice period.
im reluctant to reveal my 3 month notice at this interview i have though, as i dont want it to put them off (which it will if im up against someone just as capable as i am, but with no need to serve a notcie period at all)....just want to give myself a fighting chance...